The drama of polygamous relationships, so often explored in the Mseleku family, has taken a dramatic turn, spilling onto the screens of Izingane Zes’thembu and taking the nation by surprise.
Mpumelelo Mseleku, son of the polygamous patriarch Musa Mseleku, has found himself at the centre of a very public and very messy break-up, leaving viewers questioning the viability of his isithembu aspirations.
The season finale of the Mzansi Magic show saw Mpumelelo’s first girlfriend, Vuyokazi Nciweni, walking away from their relationship, leaving him with his second girlfriend, Tirelo Kale. The break-up, which unfolded on screen, was far from amicable, culminating in a near-physical altercation between the two women.
“Season 2 was a rollercoaster of emotions,” Tirelo told Daily Sun. “We filmed so much but reality TV will only show a bit of what was filmed. Some things aren’t there. I didn’t go there and pretend to be something I’m not when cameras are on. If something happens off-camera, I won’t go on camera and be different about it. That’s not who I am,” Tirelo said. “The season finale didn’t show everything. Viewers didn’t see everything. The part they showed me crying, I didn’t just cry out of nowhere, it started somewhere. They know why I cried. I know my truth and how everything unfolded.”
Despite the on-screen drama, Tirelo confirmed that she and Mpumelelo are still together, navigating the choppy waters of their relationship, despite the distance. “We’re still cruising nicely,” she added, a hint of defiance in her voice. “To those predicting doom, I’ll cross that bridge when I come to it.”
Vuyokazi, on the other hand, has moved on, leaving the tumultuous world of Mpumelelo’s isithembu behind. “The show was toxic, but a real experience. I regret not speaking up sooner. I was always told to respect the man, which made me look foolish,” she said, her voice laced with a sense of liberation.
Her decision to leave, she clarified, wasn’t influenced by Mpumelelo’s desire to marry a virgin as his first wife, despite her being his first girlfriend. “I healed while I was in the relationship. I had been made an idiot. The whole virgin thing showed me he didn’t need me even after I gave him two kids. Even if he would’ve changed his mind, made me the first wife, or even married me, I’d still not be happy in that marriage. I’d rather move on with my life.”
Vuyokazi’s words paint a stark picture of the complexities of modern relationships, particularly within the context of polygamous unions. The traditional values of respect and deference, often upheld in polygamous families, have clashed with the modern desire for individual autonomy and emotional fulfillment.
“My kids stay with me now,” Vuyokazi said, her voice softening as she spoke of her children. “I want them to grow in one place, and don’t want them to be introduced to different girls. How are they going to love them if they don’t love me,”
Her words resonate with a universal truth: the well-being of children should always be paramount, regardless of the complexities of adult relationships.
Mpumelelo, for his part, has remained silent, declining to comment on the unfolding drama. The production company of Izingane Zes’thembu confirmed that he chose not to participate in any interviews.
His silence speaks volumes, adding another layer of complexity to the already tangled narrative.
The break-up of Mpumelelo’s isithembu has sparked a national conversation about the realities of polygamous relationships in modern South Africa. Is it a viable path to happiness, or is it a recipe for heartbreak and conflict? The answer, it seems, is far from simple.
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